Tuesday, December 16, 2014

Happy Birthday Katie!

I can't believe it.  Happy Birthday to my sweet, wonderful, amazing Kate Lyn!  How is it possible that a year's gone by already?

I'm not even sure how to describe it, except to say it's been the most amazing and incredible year ever.  She has filled my life with all the love and light I could ever imagine.  I love her more and more each moment.  It's been an honor to see her personality develop as she's grown older.

Here's the hard part.  When you're holding that newborn you hear "enjoy every moment.  It goes by so fast."  I did that.  The late night's, the crying, all of it.  I have more pictures of her in this year that I do the 18 years my husband and I have been together.  I've tried to video, take pictures of, and savor every single moment-good and hard.  As I said, the hard part?  All you ever get is a moment.  They change so fast and so rapidly that the minute you get used to anything, the minute you're like, "oh, look!" It's gone and over and done.  

I had a hard time accepting my precious girl turning 1.  I'm not sure why, but it's been very emotional to me.  I'll never get this year again and for some reason I feel the next 17 years will go by like this too and then one day she'll be on her own, or a teenager who would rather by with friends than with mom (as a teenager should).  I just want to keep her in my arms forever. 

Here's a little look at Katie's first year and who my little girl has become.


I love these pictures because each one shows  a little piece of her personality.  She is smart and so funny  She has one heck of a personality.  Most of these picture were not easy to take.  For some reason she's great until I need to really get a picture, and then she's like "No!"  


Lets take a look at Katie a year ago.



And my precious girl now



How happy she makes me


I love my family!



Who is Katie and what can she do?  This poster was made the day before her birthday party.  The day of her party, 12/13/14, Katie decided to walk 3-4 steps.  So I'd do this differently now, lol.  But it's Katie's way ;-)




Wishing my sweet Katie a wonderful and awesome first birthday!!  Oh, and happy 34th birthday to me too today.




Sunday, December 14, 2014

Update

I just wanted to do a quick update.  Hubby finally got a job and started on 12/8.  He's really liking his new job.  We've decided to jump on the treatment wagon.  I'm currently on cycle 12 of TTC for Katie's sibling and nada, of course.

I'm going to go in for my CD 3 testing as soon as I get AF, which should be around Christmas.  DH is getting his SA on NYE.  Hoping to do treatments either Jan or Feb, but it depends on how my body is doing and how much it's all going to cost.  We were on the verge of selling our house due to the unemployment.

Nothing else real exciting here.  Ready for winter break already!

Wednesday, September 17, 2014

9 months old....

I woke up yesterday the mother of a 9 month old.  I looked at this beautiful, gorgeous girl in awe.  How is it possible she's really 9 months?  How is it possible I ever went a day of my life without her?  Love doesn't even begin to describe how much she means to me.  She is amazing and wonderful in every way that I can imagine.  She can now sit on her own, crawl, pull-up, and she's walking with her walker.  I know soon she'll try to stand independently and soon take those first few steps.  She is absolutely gorgeous and has the most amazing personality.  She's really funny and I can tell she's going to have a great sense of humor like her dad.  She's pretty independent, which means I don't get as many cuddles with her, but at the same time she can do independent play.

Motherhood is more than I could ever dream and even on the hard days and the long nights, I thank my lucky stars she is mine.

Here's her her progression pics all together of the past 9 months.  She's gone from fitting in preemie clothes to wearing 24 month clothes.  She was born 6 lbs. 11 oz, 17.75" long.  For height she was only in the 2nd percentile and for weight she was 20th percentile.  Now?  She's 29" long and 23 lbs. 13 oz.  This puts her in the 93rd percentile for height and 98th percentile for weight.  Has she ever grown! Each one of these pics shows a little piece of her personality.



I know there hasn't been any update from me all summer.  I was hoping to update that my husband has found the job.  Unfortunately, that is not the case.  4 months later, my husband remains unemployed.  He has another interview tomorrow, so maybe that will change soon.  We've had to almost sell our house, but there was a glitch with the health insurance and basically we don't have any (just an emergency plan to cover Katie), but it allows my income to pay the mortgage for now.  Really hope he is hired by the end of 2014 or else tough decisions are ahead of us.

So, TTC.  I'm currently at the tail end of cycle 8, and cycle 9 should be starting anywhere Friday through the weekend.  I've given up in my heart that I'm going to get a natural BFP.  It doesn't stop me from timing things right, but my heart doesn't break when AF shows.  I just surrender to it.  Not because I have Katie and it doesn't matter anymore, but because I've just accepted that until I can do some kind of treatment, the chances of conception are extremely low.  I'd give more than anything to give this girl a sibling and I hope this is in her future.

Well, this is pretty much the update I have for now.  Hoping to update soon with happier news regarding the job situation.

Friday, May 30, 2014

Post-Partum Anxiety

Since having Katie, I haven't felt "right".  I've had some issues, I've been more emotional and a little bit obsessive at times.  The house must be cleaned all the time, constantly washing bottles, washing her bedding, lots of laundry.  I've been more withdrawn at work, hiding even.  Not as chatty with co-workers.  Doing my job, but that's it.  I'm more of the "above and beyond" kind of worker and I haven't been.  I worry a lot, I have trouble sleeping even though she's been sleeping through the night for the last month.  My cats annoy me more lately.  I feel very paranoid, I think my friends don't like me, my co-workers hate me, etc.

A lot of these I've dismissed.  I told myself I was just tired, work was annoying, etc.  I didn't really acknowledge that this was getting in my day to day work.  Well, yesterday I kinda had to.

I had my evaluation at work.  I was dreading this.  Now, my boss and I are good friends.  However, since having Katie I've hardly spoken to her.  I freaked out once when I thought I got a mean look, convinced she now hated me, etc.  I've pretty much been avoiding her.  I read my evaluation before meeting with her and it wasn't my usual one.  I kinda knew it wasn't going to be.  It wasn't bad, but it wasn't Amber goes above and beyond. It was Amber does her job.  She sat me down and looked at me and said "talk to me".  I'm like, what?  She says, tell me about your year.  Mainly tell me about your year before Katie and after Katie.  And I got emotional and just said a lot of things, not sure any of it made sense.  She told me she was worried about me.  She apologized for not talking to me sooner and said I do my job, but it's not the same.  She said my teammates were worried about me too.  We talked for a long while, she gave me a huge hug.  Again, it wasn't a bad evaluation, it was honest and true.

I finished out my day, but kept thinking about what she said.  I looked up the only thing people talk about as it related to postpartum-postpartum depression.  Nope!  Clicked out.  I AM bonded with my baby, I love her, I don't regret having her.  In fact, I wish the world would go away and leave me alone with her forever.  Hmmmm.....  This isn't normal either.  I panic when I'm away from her.  At work, I obsessively check out developmental milestones, babycenter, looking for new toys, ideas, everything.  Katie, Katie, Katie.  On my phone I stare at pictures, videos, anything of hers I can get.  I count down hours, minutes until I see her.  I live for an email update on how she's doing that day.  I'm paranoid.

I start googling post-partum anxiety and I see very few things, but what I do see, seem to fit a bit better.  I texted my boss last night and thanked her.  She said she's just worried and wants me to get help and that she's there for me.  I'm really lucky this is my boss.  I can say a lot of bad things about my job, A LOT, but I can say I have some of the most caring people as members of my team.  Anyways, even though we really aren't in a financial position for this I'm going to call my acu and see about getting some help, even a few supps I can take.  I'm also going to call my OB and see about it.  And just see what else I can do.

Monday, May 26, 2014

Job update

I read my last post and saw that I put a "maybe lost his job".  It wasn't a maybe, it was a definite and it was done WRONG!!  Possibly illegal, we're making some inquiries.  He went from a 30 day notice to nothing by the end of the week and he did absolutely nothing for any of it.  His annual review was good, no issues with anything and then BAM!

We're trying to figure out how to make it.  I work in education, so I have the chance to work summer school for extra money.  He's filing for unemployment and searching for jobs like crazy.  I'm optimistic, but a little bit worried.  We'll make it though, I'm sure.

Anyways, I appreciate any prayers, good thoughts, etc. you send my way.  Clearly my medicated cycle is off for now, but hopefully soon.

Tuesday, May 20, 2014

T & P please!!

I got some very bad news from my husband yesterday.  He is probably going to lose his job.  He's been working there a year and felt his boss never really liked him.  He had a review back in March and it wasn't great, but it definitely wasn't bad, but it looks like his boss was just waiting for the one year mark.  He was put on some sort of growth plan after never being told there was an issue.  

He's going to be up front with his boss today and ask for time to seek out opportunities in another department.  His current job is an auditor for IT, but up until now he's actually been an IT guy with his education in IT and he even has a few certificates. He's been trying to move back to IT dept, but the company hasn't had any openings.  He's gotten to know a few of the IT managers so he's going to send them an email today, but it doesn't look good.

This means, of course, no injectables or anything like that.  Also, we don't even know we can stay in our house and we might be selling and moving.  Any thoughts or prayers you can send us would really mean a lot.

Thank you!!

Monday, May 19, 2014

Update-5 months



I know it's been a while since I blogged, about two months now.  Work has been hectic and I'm job hunting again and I've been busy with my little princess and also ATTC again.  I'd love to come on here and say yep, that +OPK resulted in a BFP, but of course that's not what happened.  I know I am so, so lucky as a woman with DOR that I conceived with my own eggs AND that injectibles worked and I didn't need IVF.  Not even that, my first round of injectables work.  I know for many of you, that would have been a dream come true.  I may not post as often, but I do read all the time.  It's hard for me to comment because my job uses google mail so I can't comment under my identity and unless there's an app I'm missing that lets you do blogger, I'm having issues with my phone too.  It's very hard to get on my PC these days, so I can read from my work or phone, but commenting is harder, but I swear, I haven't left you guys.  Jessah, Suzanne, Farra, and Veronica (even though you don't blog) especially, I pray for you everyday.  You ladies have been through so, so much and you deserve your baby(ies).

So, Kate Lyn is now 5 months old!!  She is a wonderful, wonderful girl.  She is mostly sweet with a bit of spicy.  Has a smile that would kill anyone, I should market her smile as a dangerous weapon for real!  She loves to talk A LOT, lol!  She's mastered rolling like she was born doing it.  Sitting and crawling are right around the corner.  If you help her sit up, she can hold her body for about a minute.  She can roll and scoot her butt around too and get all over the place.  I predict by 6 months she'll be crawling and sitting on her own.  Just in time for lots of summer fun!!  Here's a pic I took of her at exactly 5 months old (Friday)






So, TTC wise, where am I?  Well, I'm on cycle #4.  My LPs have been VERY short with the exception of this one, I'm currently 12 DPO, and I shot that unicorn dead with my BFN this morning.  Telling myself be glad my LP is back to more on the normal side since last few cycles AF came at 8 and 9 DPO.  I got my testing redone, my AFC is only 3 now!  It used to be 6-8.  My AMH did go up from .31 to .49, but I honestly don't know what AMH measures anymore, by AFC was a bigger deal to me.  I'm also Oing later, I've been consistently Oing CD 17, way diff than the CD 11-13 I was before.

What does this mean?  If I want Kate to have a sibling the time is NOW.  DH has his SA this Friday, I'll post results when they come in.  Once AF shows (I'm ready now, c'mon!), I'll have one last natural cycle and then right back to the protocol that landed me Katie.  We'll be doing Femara/Injectables/IUI and praying!!  I am back to my acupuncture and I think that's why my LP is now longer.

So, we'll see what happens this summer, hopefully #2.